Marin Couples and Marriage Counseling

My Marin County marriage and couples counseling services address a number of common areas of relationship distress. My areas of special focus include:

• Couples communication
• Infidelity
• Emotional safety
• Resentment
• Healthy boundaries

If you’re seeking marriage counseling – or any kind of couples or relationship counseling – you’re likely finding there’s something not working between you and your partner. Perhaps you have grown apart – or there has been conflict or infidelity. Maybe the communication has deteriorated in your relationship or marriage, leading to a build-up of resentment and increased distance between the two of you.

One of the most important areas I address is the quality of your communication. A relationship needs good communication like a plant needs water. I will look for negative cycles occurring in your relationship – and work towards disrupting them, encouraging a healthier and loving dynamic between the two of you.

Part of my couples counseling approach involves assessing what you and your partner learned about relationships from your parents/primary caregivers – and past partners.

• Did each of you have loving, supportive role models?
• Are you able to be open and vulnerable to each other in your relationship – or are there emotional blocks to intimacy and trust?
• What was the quality of your attachment to parents/primary caregivers (as research has shown the connection between this how we “do” intimate adult relationships)?
• Do either of you have unresolved trauma that impacts the relationship?
• What have your prior intimate relationships looked like?

My therapy approach weaves together concepts from attachment and Imago theories, EFT, the research of John Gottman and the latest in neuroscience.

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